The Impact Of Pornography On Male Brains - PART 1 - World's Showcase

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Sunday, January 17, 2016

The Impact Of Pornography On Male Brains - PART 1

Pornography

Today, am going to discuss about something which is avoided to talk about. This is the problem behind the curtains for many people in the society, they are not able to share their problem openly because of fear of rejection or treating as bad people.

No more hide & seek, I chose this time my topic as PORNOGRAPHY.

There is no reason for me particularly to discuss this, but I think talking about this is worthy.
Since this pornography is ruining many lives, if it is treated as a problem which will be gone by time then we are making a blunder.
Porn is irrespective of any region, it has its wings spread wide. They are wider than any good deed. One thing am going to make clear is, am not any industrialist to hate the porn industry, also am not saying anything against any particular porn industry. What am going to discuss is all self-improvement for a better life and good nature.

I planned to make this post into 2 parts. In which I will share these below concepts.

  1. How porn impacts lives and
  2. How to quit porn

Pornography is considered as a major problem with many students, employees and those who are single. It doesn't mean those who are already in a relationship are free of porn. But, it's affect is more on youngsters.

And those who are porn addicted, there are many barriers they have to face to live an ordinary life. No one is invincible here, since attraction to the opposite gender is a natural thing. But, when this attraction crosses the intended limit, that is considered as a problem. Why we have to talk about porn is, when this intention for sex is high, many people will reach porn since they consider this as ‘safe' way to get satisfied.

But, this isn't any way safe.
Watching porn is more than engaging in a sexual abuse. This is the worst thing to do.

In this first part, we'll discuss why porn is bad and how does it impacts our brains.

I would like to talk about boys, because I am a boy. And to be a gentleman, dignified person. There are few duties left for us to do.

Porn is holding few persons back from becoming what they want to become. It is interfering with daily activities and regular health cares.

One can access pornography easily in these days. Platforms are many such as mobiles, tablets, laptops, etc. The porn industry is widespread across the globe. It is found that there are 25 million online sites with many more pages of porn in them. These are only online, offline porn is countless too.

Many will argue that watching porn and masturbating is not a ‘crime', but here there is a truth to know. Encouraging porn is also means supporting the industry. This will perpetuate a culture of violence.

There are a lot of things which are hidden to those who are watching porn, those girls/women in the videos are not there by their will. They are forced to ‘act'. These girls are being victimized by the lure of stardom. Some are forcibly drawn into the industry.

All those videos they make are ‘fakes' no one is living in those videos.

I would like you to visit the below link and download the podcast of
an interview by Covenant Eyes. This is the interview with Anna Malika, sex trafficking victim.

Now it's time to see what are the impacts on humans by pornography.
I would like to present them one by one. Let's dive in…
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(1). Porn and the brain :
If someone is watching porn, their brain comes to a state of fantasy. Here, brain saves all those visual effects later whenever a person is alone, it triggers the inner thoughts.

We can't control this process carried out by the brain, this is called an addiction.
This doesn't go when we wish to leave. It becomes worse with time.

Pornography's are highly functional when a boy gets focused on sex. If addicted, there is a lot of work to do to get rid of this. It may take months and years.

Do not get comforted by those sayings like ‘porn don't destroy you', because it is going to destroy. Brain loses its capacity to enjoy the reality. It forgets to rejoice in the real sexual encounters. This is really disgusting.

Don't feed your brain with this kind of explicit data, this is not any substitute for anything.

If once fall, there is a need to reprogram our brain. Which we'll discuss in the 2nd part of this post.

(2). Socially inactive
If one is addicted to porn, they only wish to stay alone. Mostly away from family, in their rooms, doors and windows closed. They only depend on watching it and later fantasizing. Getting tired and sleeping.
There will be no place in their minds to get out of the house. House is heaven in their view.

This attitude will destroy relationships, compression in friendship and other misunderstandings.

(3). Mentally disturbed
Porn avoids to see the real. It helps in mapping those unrealistic dreams and aiming for something which isn't a possible job.
Mental illness will occur if we are watching porn for a long time.

A mentally disturbed mind will lack the focus and concentration. It is not a wonder if a porn addicted person say that he is unwilling to brush in the early morning as it is killing his time.

Anger, anxiety, stress and depression follow up.

(4). Porn = Drug
Porn is as toxic as any drug. It will create an imbalance in us and makes us to wander for more and more pixels.
A drunken person says he is all stable, but still he can't realize what is happening with him until he is out of the effect. Same thing is seen in the case of a porn addicted person, he don't bother what happening to him or to his surroundings. Even an earthquake occurs, he is there with his pornography.

(5). Objectification of girls/women.
All the above mentioned habits are one's own mindset. They are a self-soothing. But, here comes the danger. Excess watching of porn will make a girl/women as an object in the sight of a boy who is watching it. Girls are only viewed with the intention of sexual desires and no respect is seen here.

Sometimes this drive men to commit rapes and harassments. This is not good, who is under such dominance must need to consult an expert who can fix this type of mindset.

If I can say, objectification of women or voyeurism is the final stage of porn addiction.

Reasons for addicting to pornography.
These reasons will vary from one person to other. Depending upon their lifestyles and situations in which they are brought up. Everything will influence here, starting from the adolescence stage.

Here are few reasons___

  • Loneliness and abandoned - kids who are not under keen observation, who are not so open with parents and who are lacking care & love will be having chances of addiction to pornography when they are grown up.
  • Those who spend much time being alone and avoid family & friends are mostly exposed to this addiction.
  • Those who wish to escape from the reality, problems in relationships, career and stress will make to to get ‘temporary’ satisfaction and peace for that particular time.

And many more are there reasons.
This pornography won't leave any dignity in the person who gets addicted to it.

Those who watch it will think that they're going to leave this matter when they needed to, but they can't. There are withdrawals and substitutions, one addiction to dominate the other addiction. This isn't safe. Because ‘A thorn is a thorn, if it's from a beautiful rose plant or any poisonous plant, hurting is thorn's nature’

If someone is religious, they have to live a double life. Watching pornography is a sinful life, living another life beyond this as a good person is battling with the emotions.

My this discussion doesn't mean that those who are watching porn are bad, this only means if it is stopping the person to walk freely and genuinely, then it's a mistake.
Talking publicly about this is now more than a necessity.

And, we must all have to fight together. No devaluing of those who watch porn, they are humans like us, but need some moral support from us. Do not hate them.
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What is porn and where is it?
This question must be in the beginning, but intentionally I kept it here, because we are not done yet in talking about pornography's impact.

Pornography is as old as our existence. There are few categories in it, clean porn, harsh, semi-nudity, nudity, violent and more. Porn industries are more creative, they make the pre-planning of a scene which is closely related to our daily life. They include dialogues, actions and acting emotionally. Though they are not true, but to them who are addicted, brain pushes them to accept it as reality.

Frankly saying, if one is addicted to porn, he considers porn more than women. Porn is his first preference. How bad it is? Objectifying girl is seen here.

Earlier in this post, I told that there is no particular reason to talk about porn. But, in this flow I think I need to stand and raise my voice against this ‘evil'.

There is no good porn and bad porn. Everything shown in this are not educational, but are traps to wisely steal the pockets.
It's a surprise that a guy addicted to porn will spend his money in subscribing those channels for 24/7 access to porn.

Where is porn? It is in mind. Yea, porn sites aren't the only places to ‘save' porn, human brains do that too.

For a pervert, a girl fully dressed also seems as a sex-icon. Dressing is not a matter at all, it is in the mind and the thinking.
Since it belongs to us, we can control it. Provided, if we talk and discuss this.

Triggering of evil intentions in a human brain is doubled with this porn. They dream of performing the same as in those videos with their girlfriends/wives.This is rude, can be considered as rape.

Modern world stepped into another revolutionised generation, where semi-nudity is common. Television commercials to movies, this is highly encouraged. It's hard to find a movie nowadays without an intimate scene.
Cameras are only shooting girls and their bodies, adding some more strength to the objectification.
This is what we can't control, we don't have power to eradicate them, but we can rewire our brains.

To prevent violence against women, to stop the beast mentalism. We need to discuss this…

Are you with me? Many minds when works together, evolution will occur. If you are willing to play your role in eradicating this violence, do share your thoughts and opinions below after reading this. We can make a change, let's wage a war!


Part 2 - Coming soon...



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